Helping Good Guys be Better Men
It’s one of those times of year again. I’m noticing a serious pattern in the seasonal cycles. I only say it’s serious because it throws me off and, even though I had planned for this one, marked off ten days in my calendar that were ‘not to be disturbed’ it’s like it snuck up on [...]
I get asked the question a lot: why do you only work with men? The short answer is that I am more effective with men (they get the most out of our time together) and, quite frankly, I really like working with guys more than anything else. So, I do what I love. This week’s [...]
Ninety days ago, I decided to give my masculine a break. I spent the better part of last year in full gear, heading forward and pushing with all my might. It got to the point somewhere after October that I couldn’t remember appointments, coherent thoughts wouldn’t form, and I was wondering what all this [...]
In the work that I do, it is an incredible honor to witness countless men as they rediscover themselves, their true nature, and the unique gifts they have to offer to the world. There is something special about being witnessed in this way and something powerful about comprehending that you have a unique gift that [...]
There is a special quietness on the first days of the year. The snow is soft and fluffy and even the birds seem to be snuggled away in their nests, enjoying the calm. Around this time of year, it is natural to reflect on the past twelve months. To think about goals we have [...]
“You should sit your own hot seat,” she said, “feel what it’s like up there. See what you give these men.” I thought it was a bit crazy at first. I bring in hot seat ladies for the men in my groups to practice on, to grow their depth of connection and get feedback [...]
It has occurred to me recently that we each have our own formulas for success (and when I say success, I mean a long term, sustainable happiness that comes with ease). It has also occurred to me that, like creating a chemical compound, the particles of this formula may have different properties for each [...]
After having the honor and pleasure of speaking at TEDxBoulder two weeks ago, my life has proceeded to be swept up in a fantastical whirlwind as I prepare for my wedding (which is only three days away!). I received a few interesting emails this week from people who saw my talk, and the questions were [...]
Oh my god, he was beautiful. There was a length to him and a leanness that let his muscles and bone dance beneath his copper skin. His dark hair flipped just at the end and I found myself wondering if it would curl nicely around my fingers. Oh, shit, he was talking. “I’m sorry, what [...]
This topic has been so prolific with my clients lately that I thought I would dedicate an entire blog to it. A recent graduate of my men’s group immersion courses recently wrote to me. I was so moved by his story (and his request) that I wanted to share it with all of you… “Hi [...]
