My fingers need something to do when my mind is full; it helps me work out the problem in my soul.
This is why I love baking so much. You have to pay exquisite attention to bake well – whisk the egg yolks with sugar until they reach the right fluffiness or your meringue is fucked. Or let the dough rise until it flattens – otherwise the bread tastes like a brick of ass.
You have to pay attention when you bake. You have to give your whole mind over to it. I like it because it keeps my hands and thoughts occupied while the rest of me works a problem.
I’ve been baking a lot lately. I’m 30 days into my 90 days of giving my masculine a break and so far I’ve created a key lime pie, jelly filled walnut cookies, chocolate chip cookies and countless crusty bread loaves.
I’m working a soul problem called “compassionate bluntness”. In other words: Honesty.
You see, I see things in people, often times long before they see it for themselves. I see who they are meant to be, what they are capable of; I even see when they are hiding the truth from me or themselves.
It has been affectionately referred to as ‘voodoo’ by some of my closest friends.
The problem is this: quite suddenly and without warning, the voodoo perception has accelerated and deepened and the only way I can stay sane is to speak it and let it pass through me like water down the river banks.
That and baking the shit out of artisan bread.
Woman Want Your Honesty
I believe we all have this ability, whether we are conscious of it or not. Human beings are a collective whole, a connected organism. As wishy-whoo-woo as it sounds: we are all a part of one another.
We are all one.
Because of this fact, when a woman is cresting in her emotional shit storm (and she will have them men, no question about that!) you can sense and perceive her inside of you.
This is good and bad news. The good news is, you can see her and connect more deeply (which is what the feminine craves from you). The bad news is that you can also take her emotions and (maybe more importantly) have reactions to her that are not from a place of Self.
What’s a guy to do?
This weeks video outlines a 2-step tool that will help you maintain who you really are in the face of a woman’s emotion.
Here’s a helpful hint: women want you to be solid when they are emotive. When you can handle her and can be with her when she is spinning in her glory – she can trust you.
And when she trusts you, you become more masculine in her eyes.
Watch the video – it’ll help!
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